As I write this, my sweet husband is asleep, on the floor, in a 5yr old's room. As we re-acclimate him from vacation. (This was not part of the plan and this is a story for another day.) I fully offered to sleep in the said 5yr old's room but my husband insists we share the duty. So while I am lying in the comfort of a real bed I thought I would pay my respects to Husband Appreciation Day.
Now, I have learned over the years that husbands come in all shapes and size. Some travel, some raise the kids, but mine is perfect for my family. Yes we are all human and can't live up to the expectations of others and there can be disagreements, but I CANNOT imagine doing life without Tony. He is my calm rock, an amazing dad, and not a bad cook. We have been through so much together and if I can give you some advice on marriage, it is to get help when you need it and never stop communicating even when it seems like it is a dirty mess that you just don't want to get into.
His hugs heal me and I have learned to adore the boys relationship with him. E sometimes says 'I want a daddy, not a mommy' when he wants Tony and it melts my heart every time.
Tony never gets too mad at me for being outright ridiculous sometimes. He supports everything I do, loves his family, and wants only the best for all of us. He will sacrifice his pleasures for ours and never complains about it.
I love you you with all my heart. Xoxo
Ps: If you read this whole post. I apologize. Tony is also my proof reader and since this is about him, I apologize for run on sentences and in-proper writing rules!
(Proof readers note: Don't worry honey, I corrected what I found. ;-) Tony)